The first wife of Nollywood actor Yul Edochie, has issued a stern warning to him never to associate her with his choice of polygamy.
May, in a post on Instagram, said she doesn’t begrudge her husband for believing in polygamy and going for a second wife but she cannot be part of any polygamous marriage.
Her reaction comes as her husband continues to insist on social media that he has two wives, despite the fact that his first wife is not happy with the arrangement.
The actor actor and son of legendary actor Pete Edochie, began dating his industry colleague, actress Judy Austin with whom he fathered a son. He later married her without his wife’s knowledge.
In spite of his efforts to make things work couple with the subtle overtures by his 2nd wife, May continues to insist she will not be part of a polygamous union.
Recently, he posted online that he still lives with May and stated that she is not his estranged wife.
May responded that she cannot be numbered as his wife because her religious faith and convictions do not align with it.
According to her, she lives with Yul because they both built their house together, therefore it is still partially her house, but it does not mean they are still together.
May Yul Edochie wrote: The ability to accept or tolerate challenges and problems in life is a virtue, and should not be misconstrued. There is no point making an already bad situation worse, hence the need to remain calm is crucial.
I understand that we all have our weaknesses and limitations as humans, and I personally believe everyone deserves an opportunity to make things right when they stray… Forgiveness is devine.
Beyond all the unnecessary facades, Polygamy is a life choice and no one should be compelled to accept it. It is something I think all parties involved should embrace willingly, and it’s okay for anyone who chooses it. Some religions|traditions allow polygamy and I have nothing against it. However, I am ABSOLUTELY certain that I will not be NUMBERED as a wife or be cajoled to accept a practice that does not align with my faith and family values.
God blessed me with a happy, peaceful, and lovely family in a beautiful and JOINTLY built “mansion” that started from little or nothing…humble beginnings. What more could I have been asking for? I had a stable and loving home prior to the unprecedented events regarding my marriage.
Life is made up of an infinite amount of choices. Most decisions might be tough to make, but whenever we confront our options with courage and confidence, we should equally be open to the paths of our own design. I believe that we are solely responsible for our choices, and we have to accept the consequences of every deed, word, and thought that comes with it in our lifetime.
We should understand that taking life changing decisions hastily is not the best. God in His infinite mercy fixes things in His own time, He will definitely answer all our prayers.
Thank you all for your continuous prayers, love and support. May God bless you abundantly.
It’s still my birth month.
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