In the wake of calls for an end to domestic violence against women, revelations have also emerged on what some African Women subject their husbands overseas.
This follows the death of Nigeria’s celebrated Gospel singer, Osinachi Nwachukwu who is strongly suspected to be a victim of domestic violence.
Reports say that some immigrant African women exploit the tendency of European law enforcement agencies to favour women who are victims of domestic abuse.
The moment the women get exported by or to their immigrant husbands or even white spouses, they begin to scheme to disposes the men of everything they ever worked for.
They take advantage of their husband’s weaknesses to seek divorce and acquire the home and child upkeep that is almost 3/4 of the man’s earnings.
They then get the law enforcement agencies to order the husband not to go anywhere near the home now acquired by his wife.
In some cases, the man is left on the streets, in jail or gets deported if his immigration papers are faulty.
The scene below is said to be real. The woman obviously got fed of the man she never loved but only used to migrate and bear children with foreign citizenships.
She is said to have become really cranky and insultive, but knowing the law and what might befall him, the man endured her humiliation.
She then feigned violent physical abuse and made a desperate distress call to the police. The man who has seen his friends suffer the same thing, kept filming the lies as she cried for help.
Her desperate calls got her 2-year-old nervous, upset and crying. The development helped perfect her act.
Her husband ensured he did not scream at or touch her but ensured he kept informing the police over her phone call that she was lying as he filmed the entire scene.
Luckily for the husband also, his 7-year-old son was aware that his mother was lying and warned her to stop lying. The boy will be his father’s first witness the moment the police arrives.
Like Nigerians would say, “bad market for this one.” The man is surely saved.
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The next video is that of a man whose wife schemed him out of his dreams of migrating to Dubai.
He gave in to her pleas to let her go first only to ditch him the moment she got to the UAE.
The wept that she became cranky and insultive, an attitude she never exhibited in the 2 years they were married.
She soon changed her WhatsApp status profile to that of a strange man, threw away her wedding ring, started a new relationship and eloped to the UK with her new lover. (credit: Sanda Iduboro).
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Relationship expert, Blessing CEO summarises what some men go through in the hands of their wives.
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